June 11, 2009
December 09, 2008
Retiring The Jersey
December 05, 2008
Move Over Rachel Ray
Some of us have watched from afar; geographically and once in a while, emotionally. For me, in a happy-hour-sort-of-way, it feels like I’ve been right there with you on your amazing journey.
I am so proud of you. I don’t think I’ve heard you complain since around forever. You’ve worked hard, drove the miles, and studied diligently, all the while maintaining, cultivating, and reaping the rewards of employers, roommates, friendships, and family life. Not to mention Mike!
Congratulations Meghan on your graduation from GVSU! Not just on the degree but on your road to a happy life. So get going and yet---keep on doing what you’ve been doing all along.
I hope you get your dreams and can stop by happy hour and throw some books in the fireplace!
Kate & Mark! 2 down 1 to go. Way to go on setting them up, standing behind, offering solicited advice, intercepting when necessary, and letting them call you! I know you don't want the spotlight, but tomorrow you should sit tall and cry unashamed. That's just what parents do, and you've done it quite well. November 29, 2008
November 21, 2008
Ode To East Coast '08
Muriel Rukreyser
but it must be lived forwards."
Soren Kierkegaard
"It is good to have an end to journey toward;
but it is the journey that matters, in the end."
Ursula K. LeGuin
Johann Sebastian Bach
November 15, 2008
November 12, 2008
Sometimws When I Hear That Song ...
---->Getcha a guitar, learn how to play
Cut up some jeans come up with a name ...
It’s live blogging from the CMA’s
I've forgiven Brad Paisly for flagging my (his) music on youtube … and who doesn’t fricken LOVE Keith Urban? So when the two of them opened the show, needless to say I went straight to my happy place.
That’s right boys walk around and play them gi-tars. Hmmmm mmmm good—talent.
Grow out your hair ...
Start a band.
November 11, 2008
Observations
One thing I love about the internet is stealing things like this from other people's blogs.
This makes me frosty when I hear that tickets to the innauguration (which are supposed to be free) and an ice-hockey game at Wrigley are selling for $21,000.00
Take some time today to smell the flowers--and play a little John Phillips Sousa!
Thank-you Veterans (and those still serving)!
Today the media (and I use the term loosly) released more and very recent (yesterday) footage of AIG CEO’s partying in Arizona. (Hopefully when Senator McCain gets home he'll go all maverick on someone) This comes on the heels of the galavanting, rebel rousing, and pedicure reports all post bail-out. I guess no matter what color your parachute is, it can do nothing to protect your tonails while jumping. What?
Dear IRS,
I feel that schmoozing with some big wig agent in a fancy pants resort would do wonders to get some of my stuff published, AND I haven’t had a pedicure in--ever—so I won’t be paying my taxes this year. Sorry for the inconvenience.
And Yet More Observing:
US postal service for the first time in history is contemplating massive lay-offs? Does this not make you feel that somewhere and at some point, someone has been milking the clock in the USPS? How long have we been e-mailing? Surely a trimming down should have been considered a bit earlier?
And speaking of stamps … if everyone had to slap a 43 cent one on every FWD: they send, you can bet that horse would ride off into the sunset in a real hurry.
Still more:
The Big Three automakers have spent a wad retooling their plants because congress demanded more fuel efficient cars, but Americans kept buying giant trucks and driving them around with 1 and 1/2 people in them. Now both are a little short on cash. Who do we blame here? I say, the SUVer's should pitch in for the auto bailout. If you had a product that people kept buying wouldn’t you keep producing it? It's called supply and demand.
Who will bail out the tabloids when we finally quit buying them. People!
November 09, 2008
Through The Years
November 08, 2008
It's A Small World After All
November 07, 2008
November 05, 2008
Battleground State
Rarely do the YA's get to Day Four.
Day One is typically morning travel, noon-3 load-in and set up, 4-9pm begin workshop. Day Two is teaching workshop 8am-8pm. Day Three is morning YA rehearsal, workshop dress rehearsal and show. Tear down, load out, get to homestay's around midnight and then early call for Day One all over again.
Day Four is a rare day off. No travel, no rehearsal, no call time, no reds (6-8th graders), no blue crew,(high schoolers) no angels(4th & 5th graders). No nothing.
With the iPod loaded, and a few stars hanging on, we start out on her Day One and our first retirement tour. We pack a cooler, her winter coat, a replacement camera and open arms.
GR. E. Lansing, Ann Arbor, Toledo, Findlay and then small town Bellefountaine, Ohio. The political signs are everywhere, but I've conceded. My center is calm and I know who holds the future. It doesn't matter who governs us, and I will always call him President Obama.
We peek thru the gym doors and load-in is already in motion. A tap on the shoulder and then the first group hug since sayonara on May 15.
She's changed, cast members have changed, we've changed.
And yet everything remains the same.
"I knew you were coming," she says through the tears. In my heart I figured the surprise had not been leaked. Of course she knew we were coming. Because she knew we couldn't stay away.
And so we settle comfortably on the bleachers and start to soak in the YA experience.
Load-in, rehearse, group talks, fuzzy room, lunch, teaching, singer songwriter, suess, decades, hairspray, stomp, more group talks, fuzzy, dinner, more teaching, dismiss kids, director pep talk! Don't glaze over, don't slide through these last few towns. Finish strong.
Day Two: same as day one.
Day Three: Showtime
Somewhere along the 36 hours the town kids learn the show and she asks if we understand why she doesn't call!
The town people come, then 20 or so other Young Americans, and a dozen parents--to see and hear the magic and show stoppers. All of which is way too short.
The battle in our heart grows stronger. I want her to come home and I can tell she wants to. And yet, not. I want her to want to come home and yet if she did, she would leave a part of herself here. With them.
A brief space in time, in the middle of this great free country, our hears connect physically. Our smiles bounce from stage to bleachers, to our lovely cottage on the fishing lake, and back again.
We put up with her suitcase, and try not to nag about the stolen camera and lost cell phone. She puts up with our snoring. We visit with old and new friends. We learn, listen, and watch this amazing three days unfold. We celebrate late into the evening on election day in the USA. The text messages and phone calls are fast and furious as brothers and sisters, related and not, watch the historic celebration of their own choosing. Albeit, we're on somewhat different levels; Theirs' is an unbridled optimism. Ours is more subdued and a silent hope against disillusionment. . . It's their turn now.
Tonight the battle in my heart is not political. It's really not a battle, more of an ache. That damn circle of life ache.
But tomorrow is November 5th. It's a new dawn, a new day.











